We drip, we stick, we just want to sleep. No! When the temperatures go up, it’s time to have sex … otherwise. Be hot, find the right position, follow the guide!
Let yourself sweat
Hygiene has become a real obsession: we wash before sex (to smell good underarms and small flower) and we try to keep cool before jumping. This summer, let’s do the opposite: why wait until midnight for temperatures to drop? We take advantage of the heat to sweat together and it’s terribly … bestial. During coitus, the bodies are brought back to their raw state: it sticks, it slaps, it flows. We are two animals in full ecstasy. “Without forgetting that the smell of sweat is much more exciting than that of deodorant” recalls defines Servane Vergy, author of Give pleasure to a man, Leducs editions. Above all, bodies like to talk to each other to have fun, so let’s do it without artifice. You will find your manly man like never before and promised, he will love your shiny body.
Play with ice cubes
You ask the waiter for a Perrier with lots of ice, demand the same in bed. The ice cubes bring a touch of freshness that promises a thousand sensations. It’s a little cube happiness. Just make sure to moisten them before using them: an ice cube straight out of the freezer tends to stick. So don’t moisten them with your tongue! Rinse them with water or put them in a glass of water and then walk them on your partner’s body, while alternating hot and cold. The licks before and after the ice are very pleasant. Also remember to flavor your ice cubes. This is the advice of Nathalie Giraud Desforges, sex therapist and founder of Chili pepper, erotic accessories store. She recommends a mint ice cube or Sensuel Jules & Julie organic tea, ginger and ginseng, 100% aphrodisiac!
Put your sex toys in the fridge!
But not just any! Nathalie Giraud Desforges advises putting only her sextoys in pyrex, as well as sextoys that do not work on battery. Unfortunately, silicone sex toys will not cool, they are made to be at skin temperature. As for those made of metal, we are wary: it catches the cold so much that they could become unpleasant and especially stick to the mucous membranes. Not cool ! Once your pyrex sex toy has cooled down, it’s up to you. But as with ice cubes, remember to alternate hot and cold on the different parts of the body. Especially since too much cold in the vagina can inhibit pleasure. So we play with the tongue, wet fingers, the penis of his partner … So many parts of the body that offer a little warmth before the polar atmosphere. It is this balance of temperatures that raises … the temperature!
Practice the quick pipe!
Who is this one? This is the express pipe, as defined by Servane Vergy, specialist in female pleasure. If oral sex is often an integral part of foreplay, why not take advantage of summer for short blowjobs here and there, just for the pleasure of … sucking, a bit like sucking ice cream? Oral sex becomes a good dessert, which you can flavor by choosing condoms with multiple tastes, especially if you are not sure of your partner’s health. Likewise, there are very nice scented lubricants. Not to mention that you can enjoy a mint ice cube and play the hot cold to better savor your Magnum and share it with your companion.
Make love in the morning
It is well known to make love late at night because it is less hot. But if you want to avoid the hot weather, also take advantage of the early morning hours. Early morning has the merit of changing our habits, right? Nothing like a good start to the day like part of your legs in the air when everyone is still sleeping. You can say to be an early riser and to have taken advantage of the good morning air.
Choose a hammock
You need air under this heat wave ? Invest in a hammock! As Servane Vergy points out, “make love in a rocking hammock”. We get a light draft. Similarly, you can take your swing or swing hostage. A little momentum and your hair would almost fly. What better way to get laid than to hang … in the air? You will give us news from heaven (the seventh).
If your apartment is unbreathable, go in search of a quiet and shaded corner of nature. Nature is a source of excitement. Like when we sweat: we are brought back to our animal side. In addition, the risk of getting caught tickles more. Servane Vergy comments: “No matter how much you know that you are choosing an isolated corner, there is always a fear that an unknown person will pass by. It is super exciting”. We approve. Unless you come across a group of Japanese tourists, ten SLRs in each hand.
Live without underwear!
Do not wear panties, you sometimes think about it. However, trying out the experience on the metro will get you there. On vacation, it’s time or never to drop the pants but also the bra … We feel light, free, the slightest breeze is good … and invites our partner not to go there by a thousand paths .
Make love in the water
Splashing in the pool is refreshing, making love too. So don’t hesitate any more. However, two small caveats! Water and condoms do two: there is a risk of slipping. So we make love in the water with a trusted partner, with whom we can deprive ourselves of a condom. Second little glamorous info: making love in the pool water (chlorinated) or the salty sea causes an increase in yeast infections during the summer! As for the famous misconception “we can get stuck …”, that’s wrong! Although indeed, in water, it slides and slides less well … but no risk! This received idea has only one interest: to fuel the pleasure of the forbidden …
Take showers for two
If the pool seems to be a big issue, consider the shower. It’s less irritating to the mucous membranes! Together, enjoy a moment of totally erotic freshness. No need to venture into acrobatic positions and complex if you can’t. In the shower, you can play some foreplay, get excited and go to bed still wet for a tight-fitting body-to-body… The circle is complete, summer will be hot.
Thanks to Servane Vergy, author of Give pleasure to a man Leducs editions.
Thanks to Nathalie Giraud Desforges, sex therapist and founder of http://www.pimentrose.biz/, a pioneer in the presentation of erotic accessories online and in meetings, with expert advice from the founder. All products have been selected, tested, advised and recommended since 2003.